Should I tell my friends how disappointed I am in them?

I've been have a VERY hard time lately... my husband had to move 3 hours away and I had to prepare my entire home to move out there... on top of being a full time student and not sleeping (I'm terrified to sleep without my husband because of previous traumas in my life - not explaining further)... NONE of my friends even volunteered to help... I subtly asked one, and blatantly asked another, and none helped... now I'm in tears because I feel so overwhelmed and I'm so angry at them all for leaving me alone when I really needed a friend... All I get from them is "yeah, everyone is having a hard time right now.." when I KNOW they aren't having a hard time... I'm so hurt and feel like i"m going to scream.... I don't know how I'll make it through all this... my cles are SO HARD and I cannot focus on everything and make this all happen alone... please help!!!!