How do I convince my parents to let ME chose my college and future! please help....im getting desperate?

ok, I totally disagree with what your mother is doing. she seem hell bent on what she want you to do. do you have a grand parent who can talk to her, if not you will have to stage a stick out. she should be proud you know what you want to do already. by staging a stick out I mean, tell her that if you can't go to the college you want then you are not going to colledge at all. make it seem like you mean it. try being a brat, like hiding out for hours and let her look for you. let her fret. whatever you do don't let her win, it will affect you all your life.